MALE-FEMALE RELATIONS

JUNE 22 2007 16:16h

Him and Her: Sex Without Emotions

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Not only men are capable of sex without emotions. Women link sex and emotions, but sometimes they want physical satisfaction.

Differences between men and women, at least as far as views in sex go, are not neglectable. Women simply cannot understand the male drive which runs their being. At the same time, the opinion that women masturbate less, fantasise of a “dream man”, even when they are making love to their partner or sometimes have intercourse purely for physical needs, is not popular.

Men are prone to completely differentiate sex and emotions!

One of the reasons why men see sex without burden than women is the fact that they mature later. Their sexual maturity begins early in puberty, long before they are mature enough for a relationship and intimacy. This is why many years later or up to the moment when sexual potency begins to weaken, male sexual energy constantly threatens the relationship which shaped it.

A man sometimes does not need foreplay and any kind of an introduction to establish a contact with his partner. She can be tired or noninterested, he will not mind.

Men easily get into sex without love and strings attacked. When they “get lucky”, they consider this to be desirable development of events and often do not care who they got lucky with. Therefore, inclination to “paying for sex” is not strange. For them, this is a good time where they “come and go” with no strings attached.

Men have sex for themselves, for relaxation and lust. They can easily make love in the morning to a woman they do not love and at the same time, enjoy a hot night with their beloved.

This absolute differentiation and soon after joining of sex and emotions is hard to understand if you are not a man. Lust and being in love are two completely different things  which men confuse. They feel lust as love and this is why they frequently say “I love you” too soon, without thinking of the responsibility which this statement carries.

Women and sex – the tender gender will agree to sex with no strings attached with more difficulties than men!

Ever since early childhood, girls develop deep feelings of devotion so their spiritual maturity peaks when their male peers are only discovering the world of emotional bonding. This is why women see sex without emotions differently than men do.

Today, women are much more liberated and also have sex without emotions, but significantly lesser than men do. Studies show that a woman will not agree to sex with no strings attached with anyone because her priority is liking the other person.

Women chose who they will have sex with and see it more emotionally than men do. It is no big news that after a night together, they wish to have a relationship with this person.

Nature of the female body demands a longer period of excitement which is to precede intercourse. It was proven that female emotions cause physical drive, therefore the thesis that they see sex and emotions as one is accurate.

However, many women have sex with no emotions out of curiosity, desire for change or a crazy, wild night. Still, having sex with a stranger varies from woman to woman- Bringing up is of importance, the surroundings in which a woman lives and works in.

Today`s pace of life does not leave much room for getting to know people and socialisation. This is why the number of women who find one-night stands a habit has increased. On one hand, this is convenient if a woman entered such a relation purely for pleasure, but if hidden yearning hides behind sex or a woman evaluates sex as an expression of deepest intimacy, then a serious problem can come out of this.

Women can accept sex without emotions, but they will never approach it with the same easiness as most men will.