Something`s Wrong? Break-Up Sings Are…

Long before the actual break-up, there are signs that something is wrong. Observe your partner and find out if the end is near!

When someone leaves you, all your friends say: how come you had no idea? Didn`t you see the signs? Intimate Medicine magazine tackled the signs someone is sending when they are planning to break up with their partner.

Conversations end strangely

You know that odd situation when silence occurs during a phone call. You say something, he replies and then keeps quiet. He does not continue the conversation, but just waits for it to end. This is a clear sign that something is fishy.

The future is irrelevant

The man who is about to leave you will try to avoid talking about the future in all sorts of ways. He will tell you there is no point in thinking too much, given that we don`t know what the future brings; he says he has no money for a summer vacation, that he has to save money etc. Every thought on his future life with you results in a strange reply, which is anything but joy.

Dating and suggestions of polygamy

“Dear, what would it be like if we were in an open relationship?”, or “I need some space” are typical male excuses. They mean only one thing: he wants out. Nothing else.

Observe his gaze

Private detectives know many secrets how to recognise a man who is lying. Observe people who look up and left before they answer your question. This should indicate that they are trying to use their left, creative side of the brain. To put in simply, they are making up things and trying to come up with a better answer.

He taps your back

When someone taps you back, this is clearly a sign of insecurity and uneasiness. Probably, this person feels awkward and uncomfortable. The more he taps you, the alarming things are.

Mirroring

People who live together or spend a lot of time with each other develop a special body language. Their motions are harmonised. If it seems like the harmony is threatened, it probably is. Patti Wood, a body language expert, claims that the person who is about to leave you will their heart, eyes, neck and palms from you while conversing. If a man turns away from you with his chest, this is a clear sign that he is not interested.

Handwriting

Graphologist Karen Weinberg claims that the person who is leaving you has a different handwriting. If they write “love”, the last two letters will be lower than the rest. Another sign is shrinking your name.

Change of style

When a man is cheating, he is often cheating as a different person. This means that he cannot smell and look the same as he does when he is with you. The same scent brings memories and awakens his conscience, therefore he usually changes his perfume and most of his clothes. Every big change can point to deception, but it can also signify a change of taste, Intimate Medicine writes.